It Resistance Right?

SOMETIMES I GET CAUGHT IN THE TRAP OF NEGATIVE THOUGHTS AND ALSO FEEL MISERABLE AFTER THAT. SO PLEASE TELL ME WHAT I SHALL DO.

If you fight with thoughts, you cannot ever get rid of them. Whoever is your enemy shall be with you forever. Understand this secret of mind very well. The time you made somebody your enemy, you will be tied to that person. The psychologists call this “Law of Opposite Result.” The more you run away from something the more it comes in front of you. You must have learnt riding a bicycle in your childhood. The road is stretched long and wide, may spread about 50 feet, but yet a small child is riding a cycle. He has a fear in his mind that he might hit the light pole standing at an extreme of the road. The moment this thought entered his mind, he himself got hypnotized. The light pole became his entire focus. He could just think of something else. Now when he was looking at it, automatically his hands and handle moved in the direction of the pole. Now seeing that the cycle is moving in the direction of pole, he gets more scared about the same thought that he will dash with that pole now or within a while. The wide road of 50 feet almost disappeared for him. Only the pole of light became the center of his attention and than cycle went ahead and dashed the pole. There is a song in Hindi: “Jisse Darte the wahi baat ho gai” which means the thing that I was scared about that actually happened.

Resist not the Evil
This is how our mind is. The situation or a thing, which you want to stay away, you get stuck in the same. If you tried to fight the negative thoughts so as they should be finished then you will be badly caught up in them. Fighting or resisting something is itself a negative process. I am telling you a new direction start doing something positive. Do not be against the thoughts. Start developing good vibes, feelings. Don’t fight with negativity, but inculcate something positive. Wherever there is a chance of anything good just direct your life energy in that direction. Give it a new way.

opposition will never fetch you victory over them. For an instance, if there is a dark room and I instruct you to remove darkness from there. Then what will you do? Will you hit darkness with your hands and legs? Or else will you get a gun or a stick or a knife? Or will you wrap darkness in a cloth and throw it out? Not really. Nothing can be done to darkness, as it does not have existence of its own. Darkness simply means absence of light. It does not have its own existence. And one who does not has its own existence how will you fight with it? Thus, nothing can be done to darkness; whatever is possible is with the light, which is positive by its nature. Yes, you can light up a candle or a bulb as they have it in their own nature. We can turn a bulb on and also off. There is no possibility of doing something with darkness. It does not mean that the darkness is too powerful. But if you try to fight and push it out of the room then it is certainly more powerful than you and you shall be tired and finally loose from it. It is so because basically there is something wrong. In opposing the negative we shall always loose. This is the reason why I never suggest fighting with anger, lust, fear or negative thoughts. According to me, give birth to something positive. Divert your attention towards it. Let your energy flow towards creating something better. Gradually, the direction will change. Light will bright up the entire room and darkness will vanish.